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Flirtatious Seduction
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Flirting is not a skill its more like personality trait, I believe (**clears throat**) some people misinterpret friendliness for flirtatiousness and I blame the crude world. Today, when someone is naturally kind and single they can find themselves in a whole lot of innocent trouble. Kind and friendly women are labelled as "big flirts" and from the male perspective the natural traits of being a gentleman are rare and most women do not expect a guy to open a door or even allow her to walk first. Automatically, because our culture has radically changed, when a guy attempts to be a gentleman , a woman's first instinct is to either fix her hair (if he's cute) with expectation for more or come up with an easy rejection line.
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Impressive Gentlemen Always Wins
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Most men flirt in a teasing way, it starts in adolescent and some accelerated into smooth talkers as they become men, it is said that their jokes are to steal glimpses of our smiles. Ludus is that feeling in which one goes through via their early stages of falling in love with someone. The Greeks thought of ludus as a playful form of love, you know the affection between young lovers, the playfulness of a boy and a girl who both have hidden crushes. The love that greets fluttering hearts filled with flirting, teasing and epic euphoria. Ludus is also know as uncommitted love.
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Uncommitted Love
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Ludus involves activities such as teasing, dancing and overt flirting, seducing and conjugating. The focus is on fun and sometimes it is set on a quest with no strings attached. Its may involve ludic activities like dancing with strangers which is common for our local and Caribbean culture especially for Carnival, it is almost a playful substitute for sex.
On the upside, playfulness in love is an essential ingredient that is often lost in long term relationships, yet it can be one the secrets to keeping the childlike innocence of our love alive, interesting and exciting. Just what every long term relationship or marriage may need!
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Ludus --> Play --> Flirt --> Ignite Flames
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